So… My
sister and I will be going to England from the 4th of June ‘till the
8th of June. We will be travelling by plane. This isn’t entirely new
to me, as I’ve travelled by plane to Germany (Berlin) and Japan (Tokyo). It IS
the first time we’ll be travelling without our parents though. This has been a
cause for stress for me, since it brings all kinds of new and, sometimes,
unpredictable things I have to deal with.
Up until
now my parents have planned out the holidays and I just followed. Of course
they asked us what fun things we’d like to do and if we even like the place
they’re planning to go to, but they’ve pretty much planned all the practical
stuff. Now, I know how to book a hotel. I’ve done this several times for
conventions. But the real big problem is how the airport, both in England and
in The Netherlands, and the public transportation in England works.
A lot of
people tell me it’s easy, the signs will simply tell me where to go and what to
do, and I’ll find my way. But have you ever noticed how busy everything is at
an airport? Not just the HUGE crowd of people, but also how many signs there
actually are! And some of them are electronic and even change slides once every
few seconds. Because I process information slower, I also read a bit slower,
especially when it comes to finding that one piece of information that I need.
When I get halfway this one sign, it moves on to the next slide! Then I get
halfway that slide and it jumps back to the previous one. Then I have to find
out where I ended the first time and then hope to have time left to read even
more.
This is
just one sign… And there are a lot of those! On top of that, you’re in a hurry
of course. You’re trying to get to your gate in time. So everyone travelling
with me is way faster with sorting everything out and they’re not planning on
waiting for me, since there simply isn’t any time left.
All this
has usually caused for me to just let my parents find their way and I would
trust them to get me to my destination. But now I’m alone with my sister and it’s
becoming very apparent how little of a help I am at this point. Also, I was
getting so much stress, it was hardly worth the vacation anymore.
So my
sister decided to take me to Schiphol (a Dutch airport) a month before our
vacation and show me around with all the time in the world. We wouldn’t be able
to check everything out, seeing there are parts you can only see after you’ve
checked in, but we would be able to see a lot. We went there by train and had a
look around.
Upon
arriving, my sister started by showing me which signs showed me the right
directions. We created a scenario where we would be getting on the plane to
England that day. Of course we wouldn’t be getting on the plane, but it was
just to help me find information faster.
After
explaining the signs to me, she told me we needed hall 3, since that’s what the
website told her, and she told me to find it. I found the hall. In the hall we
took our time with the electronic signs, searching for the right check-in
counter. Once I found the right information, she told me what all the codes
next to the name of the city meant. Then she had me point out the check-in
counter we needed. Once we found the counter, I had a look at all the signs
there and found out which lane we would need. For some last question my sister
had herself too, we asked a lady at a client service counter. She told us
everything we needed to know.
This
look-around was very effective, since I’m now confident I can find my own way
around an airport too. Knowing this has relieved a lot of stress and
doom-scenario-thinking from me. Now I can finally enjoy the idea of going to
England with my sister in a month! I can’t wait!
I should say: a job well done by Paula. This is the proper way to help someone with autism.
ReplyDeleteInderdaad toppie dat jullie vast saampjes zijn wezen kijken!
ReplyDeleteNeemt een boel stress weg.
Ook fijn dat Paula dat soort dingen zo goed aan voelt.
(Bij mij is dat meestal mijn moeder ;) )
Ik kan alleen maar zeggen dat dit toch wel goed is aangepakt. Ik zou er niet op komen, maar goed ik heb dan ook weinig omgang met autitische mensen gehad (niet dat ik ze mijd ofzo, maar het kan ook zijn dat ik ze niet herken).
ReplyDeleteEen klein vraagje/beetje advies. Als jullie zijn geland doe hetzelfde voor zover het mogelijk is. Houd een X aantal minuten/uren vrij hiervoor (ik weet niet hoe lang het duurt).
Je kan beter direct na aankomst dit doen dan vlak voordat je weg moet lijkt mij.