tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6324704498264347705.post5151547330835286242..comments2023-05-17T15:02:34.906+02:00Comments on The daily days of an Asperger: Social confusionIsshahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02955618448944656231noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6324704498264347705.post-80136895828205535682014-03-10T09:16:01.640+01:002014-03-10T09:16:01.640+01:00Wtf that is weird, I also have a good example of s...Wtf that is weird, I also have a good example of social confusion which is not even non verbal, I often have arguments with my father because he says one thing which is often a really mean thing to say which hurts my feelings, but he did not want to give me the message he said in words, he has a hidden message that I am somehow supposed to pick up, what am I a freaking mind reader?<br />so that makes me confused and often a little angry with him and than he does not understand why I got angry or confused, and I think he will never learn that, because no matter how often I explain to him he never changes his way of communicating.<br />And even worse because he continually uses hidden messages that are completely different from what he says in words, he will change everything I say around because he still expects me to also use hidden messages, which offcourse I do not because I do not understand the logic behind saying one thing but meaning something completely different which you do not say but the other person just has to know, that is just stupid in my opinion.<br />But yeah that way he doesn't understand me either because he finds hidden messages where there are none so he makes up things about me that he says I meant which I did not, with me its literally what you see is what you get, so what I say is what I mean to say, what I say is my message, so being with my father is often very tiring and annoying for me so I don't make a habit of seeing him too often.<br />Kind regards Rob v/d Wal.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com